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  • Faith/Fear/Fruition


    Faith: the complete trust or confidence in someone or something.

    Faith is something that I truly had to learn, in order to learn I had to study and in order to conquer I had to face some true opposition. This thing we live called life is never easy, its actually one of the hardest things to have to experience. We are not all born with the silver spoon or with our roads previously paved for us. I am not in any way, form, or fashion saying that I had it so hard or so tough, but what I am saying is that my family taught me that no dollar is made easy and no compliment is given without work behind it. Like anyone else I had dreams (still do) and in the face of trying to live out those dreams there came things that I wasn’t ready or willing to face. So in my studying I found that believing in my God and having faith in the things that I knew he could do was the easiest route for me.

    • Faith doesn’t make things easy, it makes things possible.
    • Believing in something when common sense says no.

    Fear: An unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous; likely to cause pain or threat.

    Fear is something that we all live in at a certain point. I don’t care if you are the strongest man on earth and swear no one can conquer you, there is something that you fear. Me? I am scared of plenty, but one of the things that fears me the most is failure. I have never liked the feeling of failure or the ridicule that comes along with it. My mother is a hairstylist and considering she works in a beauty salon that comes with alot of talk, especially from women. As a child I would hear that talk, you know some of them they really don’t express their true thoughts or feelings in your face, but I have heard so much about how I was going to fail, how my parents thought I was so much but I was going to be such a disappointment. Now don’t get me wrong, this didn’t only come from the beauty shop, it came from church, my family, and so called friends. This is where my faith stepped in and my belief in God got much stronger. I have found that as people, especially women, the words of others can be very discouraging and can cut very deeply. Right in the midst of that hurt we stop what we wanted to do and begin to make their thoughts our reality. Don’t allow OPPOSITION to become your biggest fear or stronghold.

    • Fears we don’t face become our limits.
    • Your largest fear carries your greatest growth.
    • Fear kills more dreams than failure ever will.
    • Don’t let your fear of what could happen make nothing happen.

    Fruition: the point at which a plan or project is realized; attainment of anything desired; realization; accomplishment.

    Fruition, first of all is something that I had to look up, but once I did I discovered so much about dreams and plans. There are so many great quotes and sayings in regard to fruition. It took a while for me to actually believe in myself and actually build my faith. There was a point in my life when I felt very low and alone, simply because of everything everyone else had to say and all the other negative surroundings. During this time somewhere down the road and in the midst of my depression I began to read my bible and pray more. It seems as though that always works for me and it truly helps me to get back on track. Once I found my way back to the world of positivity and began to encourage myself, that’s when it seems that my life began to get back on track, except this time I was taking the proper route and my directions were much more clear. Basically I couldn’t see my dreams or my goals truly accomplished until I began to believe that I could.


    All three of these “F” words have alot of meaning and push behind them. Allow yourself to watch all of your dreams and aspirations manifest in your life. The he say she say doesn’t matter and is completely irrelevant. There is honestly only one opinion that matters and the owner of that opinion can assist in getting you to the finish line.


    • Fruition only comes to surface when doubt has cleared, faith has increased and become active and fear has been depleted and conquered!!



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