What is a Vintage Piece?

Antique things have an appreciation and worth. Something can be old, but it can be timeless; therefore, it becomes an antique. If this antique is preserved and deemed precious, it could be passed down as a family heirloom. 

-Cee Lo Green-

Mistakes can sometimes make you feel as though you’ve failed and anything attempted after that one mistake will result in an epic and lifelong failure. It’s amazing how sometimes as women we take on the pressure of our past and apply it to our present we actually allow it to sometimes mark our future. I, myself have done that a number of times throughout my life and by experiencing that I’ve learned that I am the dictator of my future and my past is simply that, MY PAST!

Now, in no way am I saying go out and just screw up purposefully because there is time to make it up, but I am saying that in this lifetime you will be offered more than one shot, so don’t harbor on the mistakes of your past.

Recently, I was apart of a conversation where women were talking about things that took place in their past as far as their sex life was concerned and how it can possibly mess up the future relationship they will have with their lifetime partner. So of course, me being me, I had to speak up. Ladies, stop thinking about something that is not yet available to you, or the things that are now behind you, but handle what’s in front of you at this very moment.

If a man is truly your soul mate then your past will mean nothing to him. He will love you more simply because your past has made you who you are for him today. Forget what the world has deemed to be damaged goods because in all honesty it doesn’t matter. There is only one person that can determine who you are and you will be and that is God, therefore screw what anybody else has to say about you. Your future partner, job, and friends will see you for what and who you are presently and only admire you for the strength displayed in your past.

Live life to the fullest and get the best out of it without regrets, because you only get one shot!

–Jai-